Submissive Guide
BDSM resources, submissive education, and a supportive community.
Our site
With over 1500 posts and articles about BDSM and the submissive role to help guide you, you will surely find the answers you're looking for.New content is posted monthly!
Submissive Guide Podcast
Take Submissive Guide on the go with monthly episodes about the submissive topics you care about.Subscribe so you never miss an episode!
The submissive society on patreon
Creating the high-quality, accessible BDSM educational content you love from Submissive Guide needs support. If you enjoy the type of educational content I'm creating or want more time with lunaKM in your day, I'd love to have you join the community!
Supporters on my Patreon get...
Monthly project updates
Bonus content and freebies
Podcast episodes a week early
Monthly SubGuide ebooks and signed paperbacks
Special Discord roles
AND MORE!
discord
The Submissive Guide community has a home on the Kink Network Discord server. We are a safe, supportive BDSM community, and we're here for any step of your journey and welcome all alternative and sexual identities.If you'd like to join our community, learn more about BDSM and D/s, attend virtual munches, and mingle with a new group of friends, please join us!
about submissive guide
Submissive Guide is dedicated to helping novice submissives understand themselves and the service and submission they wish to provide, from sexual to domestic, personal to pain slut, and everything in between. Through compassion and encouragement, we show submissives that every path is the right path and that submission is a beautiful thing that should be celebrated.Submissive Guide prides itself on being the largest resource for submissives. Since 2009, we've provided articles, books and ebooks, live chat, ecourses, and more, all geared to helping submissives explore their personal journey in submission.
Founder's Bio
Luna is a writer from Iowa, US. She embraced her submissive nature almost twenty years ago and loves service and protocol. Luna has explored a variety of kinks and relationship dynamics with her partner. Her new adventure is exploring hucow play as Lunabelle, the wannabe dairy cow turned meat heifer.
She met her Dominant partner online in 2003. They maintained a long-distance online-only relationship for a year. He moved from England to be with her in 2004 and formally collared her in 2007. She married her Dominant in 2011. The D/s relationship has not been without its ups and downs. The collar was removed in 2016, and through some therapy and healing, it was returned and recelebrated in 2019.When she isn't producing content for submissives, she enjoys vegetable gardening, jigsaw puzzles, bullet journaling, playing Minecraft, cross-stitching, knitting and crocheting, and getting too obsessed with her three kitties.
Our Books
Events
The Submissive Forum
The Submissive Forum is a bi-monthly virtual discussion for s-types hosted on our Discord Server. The forum will present a topic and encourage discourse and questions.Recent Topics:
Signs You're Ready for a D/s Dynamic
Submissive Burnout
Subspace
Submissive Wants vs Needs
Learning to Adapt to Mental Health Challenges as a Submissive
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on.
Online Community Munch
The monthly virtual munch is a social gathering on the Discord server voice chat to get to know the other members and occasionally talk about BDSM topics.Hosted on the second Sunday, every month.
Appearances
I can frequently be found at BDSM and kink conventions around the US! I mostly attend events in the Midwest but occasionally branch out to other states.