Submissive Guide
BDSM resources, submissive education, and a supportive community.
Our site
With over 1500 posts and articles about BDSM and the submissive role to help guide you, you will surely find the answers you're looking for.New content is posted weekly!
Submissive Guide Podcast
Take Submissive Guide on the go with monthly episodes about the submissive topics you care about.Subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Our Patreon
Submissive Guide has been creating down-to-earth BDSM education for submissives since 2009. Our mission has always been to help people explore submission, kink, and D/s relationships in a safer, healthier, more intentional way.Patreon is where that learning goes deeper.Each month, we focus on a theme related to submissive growth, BDSM skills, communication, relationships, self-reflection, or scene-based learning. Members receive educational posts, worksheets, resource guides, discussion prompts, event tie-ins, and access to a growing library of submissive-focused content they can return to whenever they need it.
Whether you’re here to study, reflect, build skills, support the work, or spend more time with Luna’s teaching, I’d love to have you join us.To join free, click the three dots next to Become a member on Patreon and choose Join for free.
We also have a Substack! This subscription is a mirror of the $10 tier on Patreon for those of you who want an alternative way to support us. Come check it out.
discord
The Submissive Guide community has a home on Discord. We are a safe, supportive BDSM community, and we're here for any step of your journey and welcome all alternative and sexual identities.If you'd like to join our community, learn more about BDSM and D/s, attend virtual munches, and mingle with a new group of friends, please join us!
about submissive guide
Submissive Guide is dedicated to helping novice submissives understand themselves and the service and submission they wish to provide, from sexual to domestic, personal to pain slut, and everything in between. Through compassion and encouragement, we show submissives that every path is the right path and that submission is a beautiful thing that should be celebrated.Submissive Guide prides itself on being the largest resource for submissives. Since 2009, we've provided classes, guided learning, books, articles, podcasts, community events, and more, all geared to helping submissives explore their personal journey in submission.
Founder's Bio
Luna is a writer from Iowa, US. She embraced her submissive nature over twenty years ago and loves service and protocol. Luna has explored a variety of kinks and relationship dynamics with her partner. Her new adventure is exploring hucow play as Lunabelle.
She met her Dominant partner online in 2003. They maintained a long-distance online-only relationship for a year. He moved from England to be with her in 2004 and formally collared her in 2007. She married her Dominant in 2011. The D/s relationship has not been without its ups and downs. The collar was removed in 2016, and through some therapy and healing, it was returned and recelebrated in 2019.When she isn't producing content for submissives, she enjoys vegetable gardening, jigsaw puzzles, bullet journaling, playing Minecraft, cross-stitching, knitting and crocheting, and getting too obsessed with her three kitties.
Our Books
Events
The Submissive Forum
The Submissive Forum happens monthly on the 3rd Friday for s-types hosted on Zoom. The forum will present a topic and encourage discourse and questions.Recent Topics:
Signs You're Ready for a D/s Dynamic
Submissive Burnout
Subspace
Submissive Wants vs Needs
Learning to Adapt to Mental Health Challenges as a Submissive
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on.
Online Community Munch
The monthly virtual munch is a social gathering on Zoom to get to know the other members and occasionally talk about BDSM topics.Hosted on the first Friday, every month.
Appearances
I can frequently be found at BDSM and kink conventions around the US! I mostly attend events in the Midwest but occasionally branch out to other states.